Celebs adopting children, becoming parents later in life

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Television celebrities Hill Harper and Hoda Kotb share something special: Both are in their 50s and recently adopted a child, becoming a parent for the first time. Harper, who starred in 


_CSI: NY_ and recently appeared in _All Eyez on Me_ and _Homeland_, revealed publicly this month he had finalized the adoption of his 18-month-old son. In an interview with ABC News, the


single father said that for the longest time he envisioned he would get married, have biological children, and also adopt. Well, as he approached 50 years old a friend of his posed the


question, “Even though you aren’t married, why can’t you just be a dad now?”  Kotb,  anchor  for NBC's _Today_ show, shared a similar reflection with her viewers: "I've always


had this feeling inside that I wanted a baby, but I thought I was too late." She continued, "I was divorced, I had had cancer, and you just think, _OK. I don't get


everything, and it's OK._ And then, all the sudden, you look around and you go, 'Well, why not me?' " In an interview with AARP, Chuck Johnson, president of the National


Council for Adoption, explained that while the age of parents adopting children isn’t tracked, in his decades of experience he has seen a shift. “As a social worker 31 years ago, I dealt


with a lot of parents who were under 40 and adopting. Now parents are adopting well into their 40s, 50s, and in some cases older,” Johnson said.  Hill Harper and son Pierce on “Good Morning


America,” during an interview on June 16. abc.com Harper admitted he was initially hesitant to consider adoption. And even after meeting with an adoption expert and learning more about the


process, he still wasn’t ready. Resuming his Hollywood-style life, the actor and author began shooting a new show and planning for other acting roles. But in November 2015, about six months


after that meeting, Harper received a phone call from the adoption representative. Harper remembers the conversation nearly word for word. “He said, 'There is a wonderful young woman


who’s having a son in three weeks. Would you be interested in adopting him?' ” The actor, who had never changed a diaper before, made the life-changing decision to become a father. He


scrambled to get ready while also shooting _All Eyez on Me_. The father-to-be went from the film set to a plane and rushed to the delivery room where he witnessed the birth. He even cut the


umbilical cord. Harper, now 51, says the biggest challenge is knowing that each day you are making decisions that will affect the future of your child.