Psychopaths do not calm down with age

Most people mellow out with age, but in the case of psychopaths and those suffering from similar antisocial personality disorders such as sociopaths, bad behavior tends to get worse,

according to new research from New Zealand’s University of Otago. Examining the old assumption that psychopaths are calmer and change their stripes the older they get, researchers led by

Donna Andersen, founder of nonprofit Lovefraud Education and Recovery, and Martin Sellbom, a professor in the University of Otago’s psychology department, surveyed over 1,200 partners,

family members and friends of psychopaths who are 50 or older to see if they calmed down. Those who knew the individuals before and after the age of 50 were asked if there was a change in

the person’s manipulation, deceit and other antisocial behaviors. The result: 93 percent said the person was “just as bad, or worse,” as he or she aged. The research was published in the 

_International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative Criminology_.​ “Anyone who is waiting for a senior sociopath to grow up or calm down — whether this person is a romantic partner,

family member, work colleague or friend — should stop wasting their life and escape. He or she will not change,” Andersen said in a report highlighting the research. WHAT CONSTITUTES

ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER? Antisocial personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people show little respect for others. People suffering from this disorder, including

psychopaths and sociopaths, engage in long-term patterns of manipulating, exploiting and harming others. They don’t follow the rules, tend to blame others, and have little regard for the

pain and suffering they cause. Andersen said the notion that psychopaths mellow by the time they hit their 40s is based on studying criminal data, not the experiences of the victims. Sure,

antisocial behavior may not get older adults arrested as much, but they are still inflicting emotional and physical pain on their victims. “The mental health field has conflated this with

antisocial behavior. They look at the criminal data and then assume the disorders got better, but that’s not the case,” Andersen says. She should know. She began studying this concept

because she married a con artist who scammed her out of money. When Andersen met him, he was 55 years old. “They say they burn out in their 40s. That’s not my experience,” she says.

MANIPULATION, EMOTIONAL ABUSE, FRAUD ON THE MENU Based on the survey of 1,200 people, the researchers found that 935 individuals age 50 or older demonstrated traits of either antisocial

personality disorder or psychopathy. * 99 percent were manipulative * 94 percent engaged in antisocial behavior * 93 percent were emotionally abusive * 89 percent were psychologically

abusive * 58 percent were financially abusive  * 47 percent were violent