Two americans moved to france 50 years apart - what has changed?

Recent figures reveal the number of Americans settling in France has tripled since pre-pandemic years. To shed some light on the expat experience, we speak to two US natives now living in

Paris. Although their decisions to move were taken some 50 years apart, their experiences share interesting overlaps and both emphasise the need to integrate as effectively as possible. READ

MORE: NUMBER OF AMERICANS MOVING TO FRANCE TRIPLES THE NEWCOMER: LILY WEAVER Lily Weaver, originally from Fort Wayne, Indiana, has lived in France since 2019. She spent her first years in

the south of the country as a student and then an au pair before moving to Paris in 2022 to work for an international development organisation. Ms Weaver began studying French in middle

school, and a natural talent for the language propelled her on to an immersive exchange programme in Brittany at the age of 16. She subsequently decided to major in French at university in

Indiana. _Photo: Lily Weaver originally from Fort Wayne, Indiana, has lived in France since 2019_ WORK-LIFE BALANCE IS BETTER “The thing that I love about France is enjoying the simple

things,” she told _The Connexion_. However, she is keen to emphasise that this is not simply an abstract, romantic notion, but embedded into her day-to-day life in very “concrete” ways. She

noted, for example, how easy it is to walk between places and the excellent public transport infrastructure, which she feels are lacking in many American cities, as well as an improved

work-life balance and access to healthcare. READ MORE: WHAT AMERICANS NOTICE WHEN THEY MOVE TO FRANCE FINDING AN APARTMENT IN PARIS WAS HARD That is not to say her integration into French

life has been wholly positive. She recounted difficulties navigating French bureaucracy, making friends, and finding an apartment in Paris. The latter, she said, saw her bouncing between

short-term rentals for the better part of a year before she eventually secured an overpriced studio on the Left Bank. Imagining what the experience of moving to France might have been like

decades earlier, Ms Weaver guessed that an additional challenge would have been communicating with friends and family back home. “Now I can simply FaceTime them, which is very lucky.”

LEARNING THE LANGUAGE IS TOP PRIORITY To other Americans thinking of making the move to France, Ms Weaver recommends that language-learning should be a top priority. “Force the experience on

yourself as much as possible,” she said. “I think my life would be very different had I not put myself in situations where I had no other choice but to speak French.” READ MORE: THE SIX NEW

US BILLS WHICH COULD AFFECT AMERICANS IN FRANCE THE LONG-TIMER: CHRIS DURBAN Chris Durban grew up in upstate New York. She started studying French in fifth grade, which she credits with

piquing her interest in the country and its culture. At 16 years old, after spending a year saving up by working in a local supermarket, she and a friend travelled to France and spent nearly

two months cycling around the country. _Photo: Chris Durban, originally from upstate New York, has lived in France since 1971_ Ms Durban then enrolled at a university in Montreal, but after

one year there, she took the leap and transferred to a French university in 1971. She financed her studies by working odd jobs, including tutoring, childcare and candle-making. She even

spent a summer working in a fish-packing factory in Norway. One day, she saw an advertisement in a newspaper for a part-time position translating financial documents from French to English.

Nearly 50 years later, she has built a career in financial and corporate translation, and she still calls Paris home. IT IS NOT ‘EMILY IN PARIS’ Over the decades, she has learned first-hand

that the reality of living in France is very different from film and TV depictions. “I think that Americans who come here are often looking for an Emily in Paris experience, or something

similar,” she said. “To me, that’s just a joke.” Instead, Ms Durban believes that what Americans can hope to find in France is an improved quality of life, incorporating everything from

healthcare to transportation to fresh food. Like Ms Weaver, she noted that most amenities in Paris are always only a stone’s throw away: “I don’t have to get in my car and drive someplace.

“I just walk up the street. What other services do I need?” READ MORE: NETFLIX’S EMILY BOOSTS AMERICANS’ OPINION OF PARIS, POLL SHOWS EXCITED TO GET FIRST TELEPHONE Ms Durban also confirmed

the challenges of staying in touch with relatives back home in the early days. “I was the first on my floor to get a telephone, and it was quite exciting,” she recalled. She added that this

process required a lot of form-filling, as well as a two-to-three year wait for the request to be approved and the proper infrastructure installed. Like Ms Weaver, she encourages Americans

to prioritise language-learning: “France is a good place to live for many different reasons, but you definitely have to get into the culture, or at least the language for starters.” RELATED

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